How to confront your man about infidelity

Dealing with infidelity is very
difficult. Whether the signs are there or not, you always want the answers from
the horse’s mouth.

Be
ready for denial

Confrontations are generally
awkward, so chances are you’re going to catch him off guard. He won’t have
enough time to plan out his answers so chances are he’s not going to be honest.
It might take a couple of interventions to get him to be honest.

Remain calm

It’s always best to give yourself
time to calm down and think things through on how you want to deal with this.
Emotions can becloud your judgement and get the better of you, don’t allow it.
He might try to flip the script and make this about you and how you’ve been
snooping around, make sure you focus on the task at hand, which is to get the
truth.

Have evidence

There’s nothing like lashing out on
your partner for something that’s untrue. Make sure you know your story and
have evidence to back you up. Confronting him without proof will make you look
like you’re assuming, and worst of all, it’ll give him a chance to go cover his
tracks.

It’s about him, not you

It’s very easy for someone with a
manipulative personality to turn the tables on you. He might pass offensive
remarks like ‘you’re acting crazy’ or that you don’t trust him. Don’t let this
rattle you.

Don’t anticipate the outcome

The
first thing that might come to your mind after getting evidence is that you’re
going to call it quit. This could end up not being the case for you. People
differ and so do their level of tolerance. It could result in a messy break up
or you might remain friends after the whole ordeal.